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In the day of love .. political “what you do with you .. spirit with him”

In the day of love .. political “what you do with you .. spirit with him”

Choosing a life partner is important and fateful, and although we try to discover everything about it before marriage and marriage, it is not without some surprises, and sometimes trauma, after the couple meet under one roof, and share the details of life with its sweetness, We do not always succeed in changing the beloved to fit our thinking and our work, so we have to have some flexibility to reach a common point of convergence, or, as the saying goes, “What is good for you is a spirit.” But how and when does this policy succeed with the beloved?

The writer and specialist in sociology Rana Al-Khaja believes that the success of any relationship is related primarily to the concept of dealing with even the different with us and our interest in love, respect and control nerves, and to leave them the opportunity to express this love with good advice and advice, rational and logical dialogue, and the desire to reach a compromise We are all different, and sometimes this difference is positive, and even necessary for a more stable and successful life, as it is said: “The difference of opinion does not spoil the friendliness of the case.”

“Love can heal from every negative thing. When we feel love, the brain secretes a group of hormones, including the hormone ekestosin, or the so-called hormone of love, which stimulates the person to bond and communicate with each other, and so The hormone function is another, which protects the person from the negative effects resulting from psychological, neurological and physiological pressures. She said: “In the most general way, love is basically giving, not receiving, and love means freedom from every negative thought, and as the French saying goes: it is the birth of freedom and not the birth of domination.”

“There is a belief that love is related to the person we love, where most people think that love is easy, but the difficulty is to find the right person to exchange love, and this is a misconception, love is not about the emergence of the right person, And the true love does not fall in the human as they claim, but stands with him and in him and in it, love style and way of life.

“Married life is a holy bond, governed by affection and compassion, and every young man and woman who comes to get married must keep in mind that it is a permanent life as long as they are still alive. What does he want from the other side, and take into account important factors that have a strong impact on family life, namely social competence between the couple and social efficiency, including the economic aspects of the two families, good ratios, and also the efficiency of the educational level, All of this must be observed Religious and moral convictions. With regret, we find that many of the family problems are due to the different religious convictions between the spouses. ”

“Because of the impossibility of creating an integrated and matching partner, equivalence of the essentials makes life easier and more flexible in dealing and co-existence with a partner that is different in small and minor details such as simple typography or qualities that do not affect deeply in personality, and with some flexibility it will not be difficult to reach A meeting of a stable life and a successful relationship away from the great blame and reproach, and the great reprimand and humiliation, all this does not bring them closer, but increases the gap and feel arrogance and guardianship.

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الثلاثاء, فبراير 13th, 2018 19 مشاهدة لا تعليق

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